Do You Take Days Off?

14 years ago

I think that the key is setting yourself up to where you are receiving some residual income instead of one-time income. I personally work 7 days a week from home, but not full time.

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14 years ago

I work nearly every day trying to build up a income on line, by the way great post.

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14 years ago

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

When I was working I outsourced a lot of content creation. Now I'm doing everything myself. I think goal #1 is to get up to what I need to cover my living expenses. After that I'll be outsourcing again so I can build things up faster.

I told myself I was going to take today off . . . but I find myself gravitating towards the computer despite feeling kind of crappy today.

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LargeBenjamin

14 years ago

I work full time monday-friday, 10-6. But the girlfriend often studies on a sunday afternoon, so I end up wandering back to the internet!

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Mohammad Afaq

14 years ago

I take off days occasionally but trust me it is hard to stay away from the computer.

Just last week, I thought I will take the weekend off and drive around city for a couple of hours. It would be great for my new car and I can have some personal time (there are times when I prefer to stay alone

).

And so I did but throughout the whole day, I kept thinking about my business. I wanted to move my attention to something else but no luck. About 5 hours later when I pulled in the drive way, I had a full mental to-do list ready and I got into my office and started working on this awesome "have to get it done" idea.

So it's hard for me to take days off because IM is more than a job for me. It's something I love

But I do take days or even weeks off for family or college but while I am away I have my assistant and my freelancers taking care of my business so technically, my business is never left without a supervisor.

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Mohammad Afaq

I take off days occasionally but trust me it is hard to stay away from the computer.

Just last week, I thought I will take the weekend off and drive around city for a couple of hours. It would be great for my new car and I can have some personal time (there are times when I prefer to stay alone

).

And so I did but throughout the whole day, I kept thinking about my business. I wanted to move my attention to something else but no luck. About 5 hours later when I pulled in the drive way, I had a full mental to-do list ready and I got into my office and started working on this awesome "have to get it done" idea.

So it's hard for me to take days off because IM is more than a job for me. It's something I love

But I do take days or even weeks off for family or college but while I am away I have my assistant and my freelancers taking care of my business so technically, my business is never left without a supervisor.

I know the feeling. If I didn't love this I wouldn't even attempt to try and make it full time. Even when I'm away from the computer, hanging out with friends, spending time with family, my business is always on my mind. I absolutely love building and marketing websites. It's a great passion of mine. But when your retinas feel like they're bleeding, it's time to take a step away for a little while, I think. :p

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darrenmonroe

14 years ago

First of all GO SPURS My wife is from SA

sounds like your doing what you LOVE which is a great thing.
And the next step of course is to use your natural talents and highly developed ones to your advantage.

The next step is developing systems that make money.
Then developing partnerships (JV affiliates other groups, masterminding)

You should build a list so you can reconnect and build future sales.

You should use affiliate products to test your audiences interest and of course ASK them what they need (problems they immidiatly need solved)

As for the days HEY you cant put a price on your rest and regeneration take it from someone who has. It will take years off of your life.

I know the pressures on
But remember FOCUS on mesurable results (anything that l;eads to leads and sales short and longterm PERIOD)

Take your day off....come back with a HIGHLY FOCUSED vengeance.

Remember your doing this for what??? the money? HELL NO! Your doing this to do:
What you want
When you want
Where you want
And however long you want

Your money is waiting on you RELAX

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Brian Lett 14 years ago

Other than the "GO SPURS" :p, I could not agree more with what Darren just said.
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  Originally Posted by Brian Lett
  
  Other than the "GO SPURS" :p, I could not agree more with what Darren just said.
  
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  So are you a LOVE Wolves fan? SPURS that was for my wife. I am a BULLS fan from Chicago originally.
  
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Mohammad Afaq

14 years ago

Originally Posted by darrenmonroe

First of all GO SPURS My wife is from SA

sounds like your doing what you LOVE which is a great thing.
And the next step of course is to use your natural talents and highly developed ones to your advantage.

The next step is developing systems that make money.
Then developing partnerships (JV affiliates other groups, masterminding)

You should build a list so you can reconnect and build future sales.

You should use affiliate products to test your audiences interest and of course ASK them what they need (problems they immidiatly need solved)

As for the days HEY you cant put a price on your rest and regeneration take it from someone who has. It will take years off of your life.

I know the pressures on
But remember FOCUS on mesurable results (anything that l;eads to leads and sales short and longterm PERIOD)

Take your day off....come back with a HIGHLY FOCUSED vengeance.

Remember your doing this for what??? the money? HELL NO! Your doing this to do:
What you want
When you want
Where you want
And however long you want

Your money is waiting on you RELAX

Hey darren, good to see you on the board again.

I believe that building a list is great and if anyone wants to take their business to the next level, they need to build a list.

I am a living proof that list building works.

Having a list of 17k+ subscribers (outside of IM, in different niche markets) is what is responsible for my 5 figure a month business.

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darrenmonroe 14 years ago

Originally Posted by Mohammad Afaq

Hey darren, good to see you on the board again.

Thank you sir. You also and I just reached out to you also via PM
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Mohammad Afaq

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

I know the feeling. If I didn't love this I wouldn't even attempt to try and make it full time. Even when I'm away from the computer, hanging out with friends, spending time with family, my business is always on my mind. I absolutely love building and marketing websites. It's a great passion of mine. But when your retinas feel like they're bleeding, it's time to take a step away for a little while, I think. :p

Well your health always comes first. I made the mistake of burning myself when I started out three years ago.

Now I go to gym, play basketball, spend time with my family etc. to keep everything balanced and to be honest I get tons more done in a little period of time because I am fresh and my mind and body are rested.

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

I was going to give myself 2 days off a week, today being one of them. Usually I'll work all day long, from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep, taking very few breaks. Everyone needs a break. But I'm wondering if I should only be taking 1 day off a week. Or if I should be working 7 days a week and just not working as long every day.

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unclepennybags

14 years ago

How do I manage IMing? Welp before getting any kind of success I was at it for about 2 years going from strategy to strategy without any focus whatsoever. I know everyone is different but this is really all I wanted to do because I don't like other work that much like taking orders, doing the same old routine. Looking back I wasted a lot of time buying new "magic bullets" and then changing my mind. I just had a burning desire to get to that sweet spot when making the transition from working for someone else to basically working for myself. To me the whole thing is a dream come true. I mean you work from home. It is real meaning there is a lot of work involved. It may resemble an office job but it is all on your own terms. That is really what drives me is that freedom not to mention the opportunity. It is competitve but in a good way as well. Another big plus is that you get to write about a topic that you truly love learning about whether it is playing guitar or electronics. The versatility involved is another awesome thing.

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

lol Though list building certainly appears to be the quickest way to making a living online, it's not my cup of tea. Nor is JV. I'm a one woman act, but I'm willing to suffer the consequences of that decision.

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Originally Posted by Ofthemix

lol Though list building certainly appears to be the quickest way to making a living online, it's not my cup of tea. Nor is JV. I'm a one woman act, but I'm willing to suffer the consequences of that decision.

I absolutely respect your style....your cup of tea would be cpa....direct response ads....something along those lines. Adsense even.

FYI: You can build a list without being corny and talking to your audience. Just write direct copy.....make your audience compliant like they're shopping out a catalog......something like.....this week specials....link......and let the seller do the selling once they click link.

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

Originally Posted by janok

I absolutely respect your style....your cup of tea would be cpa....direct response ads....something along those lines. Adsense even.

FYI: You can build a list without being corny and talking to your audience. Just write direct copy.....make your audience compliant like they're shopping out a catalog......something like.....this week specials....link......and let the seller do the selling once they click link.

Right now I do well with Adsense and Amazon. It's not so much the writing emails for the list that I don't like . . . it's the responding. I know myself well enough to know that I'd never check the email account connected to the list, and that's just wrong.

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Originally Posted by Ofthemix

Right now I do well with Adsense and Amazon. It's not so much the writing emails for the list that I don't like . . . it's the responding. I know myself well enough to know that I'd never check the email account connected to the list, and that's just wrong.

Well I sort of was saying if all your emails are based on direct sales the email responses should be minimal...your just sending your affiliate link to the customer and they can ask the seller most all the questions. It is just too lucrative and if you get to that level then you can outsource customer service(even rent out the list).

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

Originally Posted by janok

Well I sort of was saying if all your emails are based on direct sales the email responses should be minimal...your just sending your affiliate link to the customer and they can ask the seller most all the questions. It is just too lucrative and if you get to that level then you can outsource customer service(even rent out the list).

Hm, I've always read that you should build trust in the first few emails as opposed to automatically bombarding people with sales pitches.

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Originally Posted by Ofthemix

Hm, I've always read that you should build trust in the first few emails as opposed to automatically bombarding people with sales pitches.

one way to find out is to test.....if my way dont work then you can rent the list of names you gathered. All you gotta do is capture the leads.

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

Realistically though, I'm burning out pretty quickly. So, how do you guys that do this full time manage your days so that you still succeed but aren't burning your candle at both ends?

I don't know what relaxes you, but, you have to find a medium. It is different for everyone. My way is not yours, so, follow your heart, and, path.

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BruceWood

14 years ago

I'm totally in sync with Darren's advice.

When you're doing what you want to, the time goes fast and you'll find energy you never expected.

Take a day off, but make it special, so your batteries get really charged up. Remember- there are no weekends for the self-employed! (That's a good thing) We get to enjoy the world at hours when others are trapped in their jobs.

Good luck and congratulations on following your inclinations.

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edlewis 14 years ago

I enjoy working intensely for a period of time, and then take an extended period of time off.

So if I work for 3 weeks to finish a few projects, I take a week off.

There is also a period of the year where I have an offline hobby that takes up alot of my time, so during those few months I don't get as much work done. But the work I do at other times covers that.

I'm also a big believer in working once and getting paid for it again and again.

I have affiliate income still coming in from years ago...haven't touched some of those campaigns since the first time I put them out there.
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vilnwv

14 years ago

I really really try to take weekends off, however I find myself always back working on some project or other. I think though in order to really succeed you need to find time to pursue other interests and hobbies or else you end up burning yourself out.

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Jake Gray

14 years ago

I don't really take anytime off.

Working from home is 'time off' for me.

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ijohnson

14 years ago

Funny you asked that question because I was feeling a bit run down this morning. I had an offline event I had to host last night and I spent the entire day yesterday getting things together. Thankfully, it was a smashing success but I felt so exhausted. I came home and got right on the computer! However, I slept for over 8 hours, with solid, sound sleep!!! Getting this type of solid sleep is totally unheard of for me because my online business is always on my mind and tends to interfere with my ability to sleep.

I don't usually take time off either -- generally work on my online business 12 - 17 hours a day! However, I think once you've found your stride and you're focused where you're getting a lot done in fewer hours, you can afford to kick back and spend some time AWAY from the computer.

But today, I did not feel like touching the computer until about 15 minutes ago. Instead, I propped my pillows up on the sofa and wrapped up in my blanket all afternoon watching movies and the Academy Awards show with my kids. I really needed this break!

Once you have your plan of action and you're making progress, listen to your body AND your mind ... take whatever time off you feel you need and your wallet will allow. I think you'll be a better IMer as a result of that and you will extend your life on the net. Do what works for YOU!

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sal64 14 years ago

The short answer is yes.

The questions I have are:

If people are working such long hours, what is the point of being in this business?

IM is about working hard at the start, then switching to autopilot.

Sure, we love what we do... but if you're working 7 days per week and not making at least $100k per year..you seriously need to re-examine what you're doing in my opinion.

Otherwise, it's no different to buying a job. Same thing.

Secondly, what is the point of being in this business?

Surely it isn't to be chained to your PC... or in some cases... addicted.

Last time I checked, it was about attaining freedom to live life on your terms... and that comes from making money.

And that all comes back to balance in life. If you work through desperation, then you will be on a downwards spiral, unless you set realistic expectations and achieve them.

You will only put pressure on yourself. Let me ask you what your life would be like if you were 6 or 8 months down the track and you were still making less than you spend?

Be honest with yourself. If you are putting in long hours and they ARE PRODUCTIVE, then take a break. But don't be busy for the sake of being busy. Sometimes less is more. Work less - work smarter.

If money is a factor, then consider a part time job for cash flow. Heck I did.
I was then able to invest savings into outsourcing.
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14 years ago

I have not been but I really need to now! It is about time!

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christopher jon

14 years ago

Hm, I've always read that you should build trust in the first few emails as opposed to automatically bombarding people with sales pitches.

Some truth here but if I joined a list last month and you joined today, when is the list owner supposed to begin their pitching blitzkrieg? He might have my trust but does he have yours?

A better approach would be to space it out and mix it up. Offer valuable information on a regular basis and mix in the sales pitches less often. Unfortunately, many of the lists I've joined provide zero value and plenty of buy this.

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by christopher jon

Some truth here but if I joined a list last month and you joined today, when is the list owner supposed to begin their pitching blitzkrieg? He might have my trust but does he have yours?

A better approach would be to space it out and mix it up. Offer valuable information on a regular basis and mix in the sales pitches less often. Unfortunately, many of the lists I've joined provide zero value and plenty of buy this.

That's why you set up a preloaded, sequential auto responder...

Preferably over 12 months.

Preload your promo emails to go out at fixed intervals, then warm them by notifying them when you update your blog.

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Ernie Lo

14 years ago

offthemix you need to work your ass off, that's how people succeed in this business.

Why do you think most people fail, because they don't have it in them to fight! You need to fight with all your might and just get as much work done as possible even if it nearly kills ya

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miahmiah 14 years ago

It is really important to take some time of IM even it is a just a few hours.

I have started to work on the computer and I have a full time job, (which of course takes up all my hours in the day)I am slowly but surely building a business on the net. I find that I am constantly bombarding my brain with ideas through self talk.
I have been working on my project for about 8 months now, I used to be on the computer every spare minute that I had. I found I was burning myself out. Now I take time off, sometimes just a few hours to give myself 'me' time. It is really important to take breaks. I chose IM so that I can work less and hopefully when I have a flourishing business I will do just that.
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darrenmonroe

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ernie Lonardo

offthemix you need to work your ass off, that's how people succeed in this business.

Why do you think most people fail, because they don't have it in them to fight! You need to fight with all your might and just get as much work done as possible even if it nearly kills ya

Erinie needs a day off...and a hug LOL (in a strictly heterosexual way) LOL
Funny you said that though.

I have a saying
Fools FAIL and walk away....Fighters FAIL to walk away.

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Billy Rey

14 years ago

we are all in IM to take all the days off! :p

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anu_smart

14 years ago

I work almost everyday, but the time spent on work varies! Being a software developer and then doing business, takes off most of my time and yet, I will try to spare some for some recreation!

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Steven Miranda

14 years ago

I think everyone needs to take time off every now and then. I tend to work anytime I'm not tired.

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

This is a question for full time IMers. I know that we all work a buttload of hours, so that's not really the question. The question is, do you take days off, and if so how frequently, are they scheduled, ect...So, here I am now, sitting in front of the computer for the largest majority of the day. The desperation in me says I need to push through and work and work and work until I hit my goals, then I can take a day off. Realistically though, I'm burning out pretty quickly. So, how do you guys that do this full time manage your days so that you still succeed but aren't burning your candle at both ends?

You can and should take at least one day to recharge. Even if you're thinking about work on your day off, it's not necessarily a bad thing. You'll return to work with fire and purpose. You might even find out that you're more productive than if you worked 24/7.

I can only speak for myself, but I used to waste a lot of time surfing the net for pleasure when I was supposed to be working. I finally forced myself to make a to-do list, and now I find that I sometimes get as much done in a day as I used to get in a week. I'm more focused now, and in my case added focus meant additional earnings.

Good luck!

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Brucew0617

14 years ago

Yes, I have weekend days, and I need to relax myself.

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affilorama-portal

14 years ago

Not taking a day off is bad. Everyone needs to recharge. I would suggest that you make a schedule for yourself with working hours that would be similar to what you would have if you were working full time for someone else.

It would be okay to occasionally do "overtime" work for yourself but you must have at least a day (or its equivalent, like half the day on both Saturdays and Sundays) when you do not even go anywhere near your computer.

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14 years ago

I try to take at least one day off a week, but it usually doesn't happen. I'm not yet at the sustainable income level and that may be why. It is always on my mind.

Even when I'm at home I'm 'at work' all day. It is THE ONLY THING I miss about having a job outside the home, that when I am home I am really at HOME and not at work anymore.

To have any time 'off' I have to leave the house and have no reasonable excuse to take the laptop with me.

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iuditg

14 years ago

I usually take a break on weekends and move out with my family and friends.

Also I swim like an hour or two everyday just to keep myself healthy and enegertic

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traffic-turbo

14 years ago

I take breaks, days off and holidays.

I start working at 7.00 am
I work for 50 minutes and get a 10 minutes break for a bowl of fresh air, a coffee, a snack...
I get an other break at 12.00 pm, lunch time
Go back to work at 1.00 pm with a 10 minutes break every 50 minutes.
I work normally 5 days a week IF my weekly work is done, if not I work an extra day.
On my last day of work, I make a TO DO LIST for the next week.
And I stick to it, if I finish my to do list to early in the week, I do some maintenance jobs left and right. (websites, backups, db optimisation, and so on)
I work 11 weeks and take one week off.
That's it.
Simple and well organised.
This system allows me to stay focused, to have all my tasks done and to avoid procrastination.
Hope this helps.
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adeleadams

14 years ago

Originally Posted by traffic-turbo

I take breaks, days off and holidays.

I start working at 7.00 am
I work for 50 minutes and get a 10 minutes break for a bowl of fresh air, a coffee, a snack...
I get an other break at 12.00 pm, lunch time
Go back to work at 1.00 pm with a 10 minutes break every 50 minutes.
I work normally 5 days a week IF my weekly work is done, if not I work an extra day.
On my last day of work, I make a TO DO LIST for the next week.
And I stick to it, if I finish my to do list to early in the week, I do some maintenance jobs left and right. (websites, backups, db optimisation, and so on)
I work 11 weeks and take one week off.
That's it.
Simple and well organised.
This system allows me to stay focused, to have all my tasks done and to avoid procrastination.
Hope this helps.
Have a wonderful day.
Marc

You have managed your schedule very well. Well I work for straight 6 hours from Monday to Friday and for 3 hours on Saturday. Sunday is always a fun day for me

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digitaldna

14 years ago

sometimes you need some space to relax and calm your mind so yeah i would say totally, use your fresh earned money and take a break

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Prady N

14 years ago

Even when I take days off..I find it very difficult to get mentally away from internet marketing..all the time I think about building a business

I really need to learn completely switch off IM thoughts while I am taking break.. May be I need some Yoga

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paulie888

14 years ago

Originally Posted by yogk31

Even when I take days off..I find it very difficult to get mentally away from internet marketing..all the time I think about building a business

I really need to learn completely switch off IM thoughts while I am taking break.. May be I need some Yoga

I know exactly what you're talking about. If you're truly passionate about internet marketing, it's very hard to just turn it "off" when you want to relax and get away from it. I'd suggest trying some meditation, and also picking up some enjoyable hobbies and perhaps sports that have nothing to do with internet marketing!

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RARMediaGroup 14 years ago

Originally Posted by iuditg

I usually take a break on weekends and move out with my family and friends.

Also I swim like an hour or two everyday just to keep myself healthy and enegertic

Yeah we work out 6 days a week to insure we can stay focused for hours at a time during the workweek.
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Zachmo

14 years ago

I don't usually take day off if I did not performed well within the whole week.

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liza86

14 years ago

I work almost 6 hours from Monday to friday, I take off very rarely.

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paulie888

14 years ago

You definitely have to give yourself some time away from the computer on a regular basis, otherwise you'll burn out really quickly. The fact that you pretty much work all the way from the time you wake up until you go to bed is not a healthy thing to do on a consistent basis, and it'll also detract from your effectiveness at your IM.

It's okay to work anywhere from 7-9 hours a day, but it has to be focused work. If you're spending the whole day in front of the computer like how you describe, you'll not be able to maintain your focus and efficiency. You have to look after your health as well - I know that many people equate time spent in front of the computer with "working", but this is simply not true.

Evaluate what you're actually doing the whole day in front of the computer - I'd wager that you're spending a fair amount of time doing things which aren't exactly IM related, such as checking email, Facebook, Youtube, IM, etc.

Instead, work for no more than an hour at a time, take 5 minute breaks in between, and resolve to only do productive work in front of the computer that will make you money and advance your IM. Any time you feel distracted and/or too exhausted to concentrate, get up and away from the computer. Exercise, take a walk, work out, or perhaps engage in a hobby. You need time to recharge and recuperate away from the computer. Believe it or not, spending too much time in front of it will take away from your productivity. It's far better to work 5 hours with intense focus each day, and then take the rest of the day off enjoying life - make it into a game where you really work intently on your IM for a set amount of time each day (preferably not more than 9 hours), and then reward yourself with interesting and enjoyable activities after that. You'll get so much more done this way, and you won't be miserable staying in front of the computer all day long, telling yourself that you're "working" hard.

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Devid Farah 14 years ago

The surest way to keep pushing in IM is to find areas or niches that interests you.

There are numerous money making niches online but you might be taking some wrong step if you think that, for example, you will do well when you start a blog on 'swimming' when in reality, you hate water. Are you getting it?

There are times i sit down and write for over 6 hours without burning-up simply because i write on niches that fans the energy in me.

You will love the 'job'(IM) more if you look closely at areas you have passion for.

That way, you will begin to see better earnings and you will be looking forward to sitting in-front of your computer.

This is my own way of working harder without feeling it.

Again, when you begin to make more money, you will start to get motivated over and over.
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imagetypers

14 years ago

Trying hard to earn more, no days off for me now, will think about it after a year or two.

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by imagetypers

Trying hard to earn more, no days off for me now, will think about it after a year or two.

Believe me, you'll get more done by working intensely over a shorter period each day, and then giving yourself time for rest, relaxation and enjoyment afterward. Don't make the mistake of thinking that you'll get more done simply by spending the whole day in front of the computer - most of us waste far too much time doing non-productive tasks when stuck in front it for too long!

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by paulie888

Believe me, you'll get more done by working intensely over a shorter period each day, and then giving yourself time for rest, relaxation and enjoyment afterward. Don't make the mistake of thinking that you'll get more done simply by spending the whole day in front of the computer - most of us waste far too much time doing non-productive tasks when stuck in front it for too long!

This is true. I typically start my day checking emails and hanging out on one of my forums, which eats into a large amount of my time. I have a fairly good sense of when my day has been super productive and when it hasn't been very productive at all.

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

This is true. I typically start my day checking emails and hanging out on one of my forums, which eats into a large amount of my time. I have a fairly good sense of when my day has been super productive and when it hasn't been very productive at all.

Exactly, we have all been guilty of doing this to some extent, but the key is to designate actual work time in front of the computer, where you allow nothing else to get in the way of focusing on your IM activities.

Checking emails, IMing/social networking and forums should be strictly regulated, and preferably done at the end of the day after you've finished with your productive work - at least this is how I would do it!

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by paulie888

Checking emails, IMing/social networking and forums should be strictly regulated, and preferably done at the end of the day after you've finished with your productive work - at least this is how I would do it!

Paul

I think I'm going to try that, to only check forums in the afternoon. I have to check my email in the morning, regardless . . . but doing the forum thing can eat up a lot of time that could be better spent doing other things, especially if I check it twice a day. I also need to get checking my stats under control. I typically check them in the morning and at night, also counterproductive. As they say, the first step to getting over your problems is to admit that you have them in the first place. :p

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

I think I'm going to try that, to only check forums in the afternoon. I have to check my email in the morning, regardless . . . but doing the forum thing can eat up a lot of time that could be better spent doing other things, especially if I check it twice a day. I also need to get checking my stats under control. I typically check them in the morning and at night, also counterproductive. As they say, the first step to getting over your problems is to admit that you have them in the first place. :p

Good, it sounds like you're certainly well on your way then, with your admission that there could be an issue with your present workflow.

There's nothing wrong with checking emails, forums and stats, but you have to designate certain times during the day for doing this and not let it intermingle with your real work.

I remember that when I started out in IM, I was particularly bad about checking stats. Since one of the things I do is CPA marketing, I was refreshing my stats several times each hour (conversions occur frequently in CPA, and I was starting to get addicted to seeing them happen on a regular basis). It got to the point where it became really ridiculous, and I had to finally admit to myself that I had a huge problem that needed to be fixed.

One thing which can help keep your browsing habits under control is the LeechBlock add-on for Firefox - with this, you can block your problematic sites (forums, stats, etc.) during certain periods of the day, and while this may seem a tad draconian, it is certainly a great productivity tool that dramatically enhances your productivity during your set working hours!

http://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C1...8&q=leechblock

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

I think I'm going to try that, to only check forums in the afternoon. I have to check my email in the morning, regardless . . . but doing the forum thing can eat up a lot of time that could be better spent doing other things, especially if I check it twice a day. I also need to get checking my stats under control. I typically check them in the morning and at night, also counterproductive. As they say, the first step to getting over your problems is to admit that you have them in the first place. :p

I check emails in the morning due to time zones. But the problem is that if there is a small issue, it throws your day out... totally. That's when you get side tracked.

If you have hosting with cPanel, you can use Fantastico to set up a support desk for free. I use it, so that all my inbox does not get flooded with any customer support issues.

I also have 2 email address... one personal and one for business so that I can differentiate between both types.

Another suggestion is to plan the night before and identify the top 2 money making activities for the next day... then do them first, before you do anything else. Then if your days go to crap, you still have made some inroads.

And let's be honest... of all the things we do daily, how many are essentiall and the rest peripheral?

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by paulie888

Believe me, you'll get more done by working intensely over a shorter period each day, and then giving yourself time for rest, relaxation and enjoyment afterward. Don't make the mistake of thinking that you'll get more done simply by spending the whole day in front of the computer - most of us waste far too much time doing non-productive tasks when stuck in front it for too long!

Like posting on these forums hehe

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14 years ago

I dont really take days off, but I take plenty of small 3-day trips through the year. Those long-weekend breaks is what keeps me sane still I reckon!

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magicash

14 years ago

I have found that getting organized, using time management properly, and breaking down tasks is something that I have struggled with. You would do yourself a big favor by figuring this out early on in your IM carreer. So many hours and days (and years) can be wasted, with little to show for it, no matter how many 7-day workweeks you do!

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bigjara

14 years ago

sometimes its better to work smart, not hard. Burning yourself out isn't go to help anyone. What i do is work in 90 min intervals, with a 15 minute break in between. You got to get up every now and then to clear your mind a refresh.

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James Clark 14 years ago

When I first started work my butt off! But when I got a system and stuck with it, now I work everyday but not all day. You didn't mention in you OP whether you had a job or not.

I'm not a TV person, so I don't watch much of that. But I have other hobbies. Normally, I work in blocks of 45 minutes at a time. Sometimes, I go downstairs and work on my cars. With three cars I can always find something to do there.

Not a mechanic, I'm talking about keeping them clean.(LOL)

Keep in mind, in a house you have things that most be done. Running to the supermarket etc. I leave myself something to do everyday.

Normally, I go for a walk, from 12:00 to 2:00. But if its raining or snowing leave that for another day. But I consider that working because I'm thinking about business. And that is work to me.

I'm sorry, you did mention that you lost your job. Don't worry its probably the best thing that could happen to you if you want to go into Internet Marketing. Collect your unemployment checks and keep working.

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  The majority of my work is done by communicating with people, so there are hours throughout the day when nobody wants to be bothered (dinner, night, early morning, etc) and during those times I get other stuff done.
  
  Thanks to outsourcing I can go days without working and take time off, I definitely recommend it to anyone who is making enough money to afford outsourcing.
  
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14 years ago

Paulie888 is spot-on and Ofthemix, you're learning! Hopefully, the comments posted here have been eye-opening and have shown that it's okay to step back and take a breather.

A lot of the time-wasting activities we tend to engage in have been covered in previous posts here. I think the most important thing to do (and the smartest thing to do) is to work with a plan and a purpose, every day.

Staying focused on your tasks and daily goals will allow you to be more productive, work more efficiently, and give you more time for activities outside IM that will help to keep us balanced and sane!

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14 years ago

Hello Ofthemix.

Yes, you need time off. One of the great things about IM is that you can work your own hours, around any schedule.

I used to be on the computer 7 days a week, several hours a day. Now I'm on 5 days a week. Prioritize...spend more time doing action steps.

Sorry you lost your job Ofthemix. Jobs suck...it's almost impossible to become wealthy with a job!

I truly believe Network Marketing and Internet Marketing are the very best ways to make a lot of money...especially for someone with little money, little time, and little experience.

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BlondieWrites

14 years ago

Most of the time, I work everyday. I save and save and save more, then I take a full month off (other than emails basically). I have gotten to the point that I make myself take a day off here, a day off there... but I still take a month off when business has gone well enough that I can afford to do that.

When you work for someone else, you set a day or two a week off, right? The same should be when you work for yourself. Give yourself at least one day a week off. It's better for the body and mind to get a break.

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14 years ago

"Hm, I've always read that you should build trust in the first few emails as opposed to automatically bombarding people with sales pitches"

"That's why you set up a preloaded, sequential auto responder...

Preferably over 12 months.

Preload your promo emails to go out at fixed intervals, then warm them by notifying them when you update your blog. "

Focus on doing the things that you enjoy doing and automating the things that are required to be done. If you want to have a "business" then you must build a list. Otherwise you are simply building someone else's business in return for income. That's fine, but if they change what they do, where is your business?

If you are burning yourself out, then you are wasting time in front of the computer. We've all done that. But working from the time you get up until you go to bed isn't very efficient. You need to assign yourself a few daily tasks that must be done. Then you go about doing them in an efficient manner. And then you go do something else ... like lunch with friends, window-shopping for all the stuff that your hard work will eventually get you, a stroll down the River Walk and a burger at the Hard Rock (love San Antonio - I'm in Houston), an hour in the hammock in the backyard with a "recreational" book (not an IM manual). You can work everyday if you like ... but you can't work all-day, everyday. Plan your work days and then you can plan for days that you don't have to work.

I'm obssessive and "need" to check on things every day. But I take a quick look on my off-days and move on with my life. If you can't push away from the computer when the money is still small, then you'll kill yourself working when the money gets to be pretty good. I wish you much success. And congrats on having the kind of Dad who gives you real support and encouragement. Be sure and take him to the car dealership of his choice and reward him when you're making $1000.00 a day part-time in your underwear on the deck of your boat while sipping your favorite beverage! Isn't that how it works?

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Richard N Adams

14 years ago

Personally speaking I find that I become less and less productive as the day goes on generally so my ideal schedule - when I can stick to it - is to start work really early in the morning. Get up, get showered and get working. I then work through till lunchtime/early afternoon - 1-2pm seems my limit - then I take the rest of the day off guilt-free apart from perhaps a quick check-in early evening.

Doing things this way I find I achieve just as much as if I try to "push" myself all day long (becoming less productive as time goes on), and I manage to have a life outside IM too.

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Gail Sober

14 years ago

I work all day every day. (I do take plenty of breaks though)

Sometimes when I'm feeling burned out, I'll just slack off for a week or so.

I figure work hard now so I won't have to later in life.

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14 years ago

One more thing ...

One of the best marketers around right now is Eben Pagan. He's the "Double Your Dating" dude known as David DeAngelo. He's now a "guru" for marketers.

The best thing that I learned from him was that you have productive days when you start your day off getting things done that NEED doing. Before you go to bed, pick the top three things that you need to accomplish in your business the next day (email a particular client, rewrite some copy, change the ad on the top left corner of my site, shuffle the Amazon products I'm pushing, etc). Then instead of starting the day checking emails and forums ... you start the day doing what you need to get done. Get in there early and hit that ad copy. Jump right in and rework that traffic campaign. Do those two or three top things first. Then if you get sidetracked writing long posts on the Warrior Forum for a big chunk of the afternoon, you'll still have had a productive day. Just thought I'd share that. Have a good one.

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brybiz

14 years ago

I go at hard during the weekdays and only a couple hours a day on weekends. I am like you, hated corporate America. I find doing IM is a real passion so working a lot of hours does not bother me. When I do take a day off, I can't wait to get back at it!

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Benjamin Ehinger

14 years ago

I take Tuesdays off because it is the day I have college class and I take Sundays off as well. I work 20 hours a week writing for others and 20 hours a week working on my own projects.

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14 years ago

Sure resting is important thing

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vishalduggal

14 years ago

Whenever I make large bucks in few days I take some leave to get relaxed.
After all what is the meaning of doing IM business if u didn't enjoy life .

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Originally Posted by vishalduggal

Whenever I make large bucks in few days I take some leave to get relaxed.
After all what is the meaning of doing IM business if u didn't enjoy life .

Amen to that.

I actually break up my days by doing some building work on the side to keep myself fit. The extra cash comes in handy as well.

But you need balance in life. I used to push myself, but now I find that if I have a cold or don't feel well... I just walk away because the time I spend is next to useless when I'm not in the zone.

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sweetdreams

14 years ago

in the beginning i would say do definitely something every day, later on and depending on what business ur in it's sometimes nice to take a break for a few days and get some fresh insights..

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14 years ago

I believe you have an employee mentality.... e.g. how many days off you get.

I've been working for myself for the last 8 years. And I never truly have a day off.. but I can 100% guarantee you I do not work as hard an employee working 40 hours a week with 2 days off.

Change your mentality. If you don't have a black berry/iPhone, get one, very liberating... e.g. I can be at the beach with my son and still 'work' if needed.

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Ofthemix 14 years ago

Originally Posted by jeeps

I believe you have an employee mentality.... e.g. how many days off you get.

I would definitely agree with this. It also doesn't help that I'm a creature of structure and habit. I like everything to run by the tick of a clock. It makes me happier for some reason.

And hear I am on the forum again. :p Not going to beat myself up over it though today. Back to production.
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  I try not to be scheduled and let my body and brain dictate when i work. I find i get bouts of creativity so then i'll work and then there are times when I don't feel like it so i'll do what i need to do and take the day off.
  
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  I have pretty much always taken Saturday and Sundays off. I do tend to hang out here, do keyword research and hire outsourcers and such during those days though.
  
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14 years ago

Originally Posted by jeeps

I believe you have an employee mentality.... e.g. how many days off you get.

I've been working for myself for the last 8 years. And I never truly have a day off.. but I can 100% guarantee you I do not work as hard an employee working 40 hours a week with 2 days off.

Change your mentality. If you don't have a black berry/iPhone, get one, very liberating... e.g. I can be at the beach with my son and still 'work' if needed.

I tend to disagree totally with this this... with all respect, because I don't know you.

I don't own a crackberry or iphone. In fact my greatest liberation has been to switch off my cell phone.

To each their own, but if I'm with my kids... I'm with my kids.

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StephanieMojica

14 years ago

I try, but rarely succeed. I would say even on "days off" I spend at least an hour--usually a few--working on new products and learning more about marketing.

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14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

I don't engage in list building or product creation.

Could this be the reason you've worked so long with so little results?

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Originally Posted by magman01

Could this be the reason you've worked so long with so little results?

Yes but she already said she is willing to sacrifice taking longer to build wealth for doing things her way. Besides at least she is honest about her income, and, she prolly makes more than half the room. Aren't you tired of the tall tales being told in here? I was thinking of starting a thread on it.

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Tim_Carter

14 years ago

I take WAY WAY WAY more days off then I work.
Many Many days off.

In case you need clarification.....

I take a lot of time off.

That is what is good about membership sites and automated systems.

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Ofthemix

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Paul Barrs

Here's the reason why i never usually post to these types of threads; because they are so subjective that the "each to their own" philosophy is what rings true.

However, I was invited to this one so I'll ad my 2 bucks worth and you folks can do with it as you will...

*** The last time I was involved with a personal coaching program I was the 'problem person'... I believed in "work", and no matter how hard my mentor tried to help me see the other side of it, I wanted to "work".

He told me that he didn't believe in "work", he ran a business - he didn't "work in it"; it's a different thing.

The most productive thing he got me to do was to UN-PLUG. I wanted to work, so he gave me "work hours" - hours on and hours off.

He wouldn't let me start before 9 and wouldn't let me continue after 3 - that was when the kids got home.

On weekends I was allowed Saturday's 9 - 12, but no more - and on School holidays I had the first week one day on & one day off; and all of the second week off - that was family time.

To me, this wasn't logical. Surely I had to work more to get better results.

No.

After my first $50,000 he let go of the reins and said 'see what you can do on your own'. It was difficult to let go, but I did.

After I'd cracked the quarter mill mark - I wanted to tell him that he was right. I didn't need to "work" after all. I needed to let my business 'work'.

Unfortunately he'd passed away by that time and I was not able to thank him. You see the thing was, he learnt the value of 'time off' too late. He'd "worked" himself to the bone for too many years and one day his body told him "no more".

I told him the hours I wanted to work... the hours I could work - he told me "no more".

I say the same to you.

No more.

Paul Barrs

PS. There's an old story, you may have heard it, of the aged millionaire laying on his deathbed. Of all the things he could possibly say, his final words most certainly wouldn't be... "I wish I had worked more."

Food for thought.

That was a good story. I think it will be a while before I transition from the employee mentality. I feel like when I stop to take a break that I'm wasting time. So many times I hear that the best time to try to push through is when you're already burnt out. This is often regarded as one defining factor between those who succeed and those who fail. While it sounds all nice and shiny and motivational, I'm not too sure that I believe it. How much good does it do your business to publish crappy content because you're too tired and unmotivated to create something worthy of attracting visitors and potentially make you more sales.

I got up this morning, went straight to work, put in I'm not even sure how many hours but it couldn't have been more than 6, then burnt out. Despite loving this, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. People can burn out on their passions, not completely, but to the point that they just need a break, even if it's only for a few hours.

Perhaps I should take a few different approaches to this and see what works. After all, with no job, all I really have is time.

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sal64

14 years ago

From your comments, I'd say that self-management is your main problem here.

I also think that you misunderstand the whole pushing through issue. It's about not quitting... not overworking and testing your pain / sanity limits.

And don't cling to this emlpoyee mentality as justification.

You see, it's not about working until you burn out. It's not about hours worked... it's about how you use that time.

You mention that being unemployed, you have time... so use it correctly.

If you want to work 9-5 then do so, but use your time correctly.

It's hard when starting out because not only are you used to a certain life/ work cycle, but you are also mentally wired in a certain way.

So the biggest challenge as I see it, is that you need to manage yourself better. And for starters, ask yourself honestly, how you spend your time and what tasks you do.

I want to share a method that I learnt and has served me well...

1- Allocate a set number of hours daily from Monday thru Friday.

2- Divide that time into 3 blocks. Why 3? Because there are only 3 areas of your business that need attention on a regular basis: traffic/list, products, and marketing those products .

3- Make a schedule / plan of the tasks required for each one, then allocate tasks on a regular daily basis to each.

4- Stick to it. set a timer if needed, and take a 10 to 15 break in between each time block.

5- If you decide to work 9 hours per day, then take a short break every 90 minutes and take time for lunch.

Look, it is a discipline, and will take you while to adjust.

In my humble opinion.

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

That was a good story. I think it will be a while before I transition from the employee mentality. I feel like when I stop to take a break that I'm wasting time. So many times I hear that the best time to try to push through is when you're already burnt out. This is often regarded as one defining factor between those who succeed and those who fail. While it sounds all nice and shiny and motivational, I'm not too sure that I believe it. How much good does it do your business to publish crappy content because you're too tired and unmotivated to create something worthy of attracting visitors and potentially make you more sales.

I got up this morning, went straight to work, put in I'm not even sure how many hours but it couldn't have been more than 6, then burnt out. Despite loving this, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. People can burn out on their passions, not completely, but to the point that they just need a break, even if it's only for a few hours.

Perhaps I should take a few different approaches to this and see what works. After all, with no job, all I really have is time.

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Sarah Bosen

14 years ago

I hear ya!
I push myself a little too hard to reach goals sometimes, and then get burned out.
But what I have noticed with myself, and probably others can relate, that taking a day off every 4 or 5 days does the brain and body good!
When I am able to get out give my brain and body a break (cause you know how hard it is to sit all that time) and exercise, I am usually more productive and quality of work goes up. Overall taking time off is important for your peace of mind.

I usually work 4 days, then take 1 day off. Though randomly I might work 6 days and take 2 off. Try to plan at least a half day off before you know you will get burned out.
You will feel better about working, and be more productive and happy!

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Mark Jordan

14 years ago

I do a lot of stuff not just IM yet I still make it a point to have time with family, friends and take a break once in awhile. I outsource content creation, use software to automate work...so I won't burn out.

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Kevin Kimes

14 years ago

Regarding the title itself, here's some food for thought.

I'd personally suggest dedicating 5 days to business work, 1 day to other work like grocery shopping, house cleaning, etc., and any significant extra time on that 6th day to business as well. Then take 1 day completely off. On that day, don't even think about work, or the daily routine. Make it like a relaxing weekly vacation. If inspiration hits, just make a quick note and put it aside until the next day. Get out of your home if needed, take in some nature (the greener the better - scientific fact), do anything to keep your mind off work, while not taxing your body much.

The military (US military I think, not sure which branch, etc) did experimentation at some point to determine the optimal number of days to work and rest in a repeating cycle. They tried various combinations, including 10 days on, 1 day off. In short, they determined that working 6 days and resting for 1 was the most effective. It provided the highest level of sustained productivity over a long or indefinite period of time.

Makes ya wonder if the Jewish Sabbath might be a useful thing after all, eh?

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Jeremy Barker

14 years ago

Actually physically working I take Sunday off most weeks. This is a day that is set aside for my family specifically. I may do a little work after everyone goes to bed but other than that, I don't do a lot then. I believe that the key is to set yourself up in what you are doing so you don't have to be on a computer every day of the week with a lot of time each day.

It takes a while of marketing and marketing to the right "niches" and "ways" to build your campaigns up so they are working for you even when you are not online.

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Western Grizzlin' 14 years ago

I take off plenty of days and half days. I did that when I was doing really well and I did when I was not doing so well.

This business isn't like laying bricks. Giving your mind some time sort things out subconsciously while you're doing something you enjoy can have a dramatic positive effect on your profits.

I had the best ideas of my entire career while I was walking around waiting tables. I wouldn't even be thinking about IM, but things would just pop into my head.

And after all, who wants to live a life where you have to work every single day. That would make me sad.
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penpal6

14 years ago

honestly speaking, I really try to take a Sunday of..... but nowadays I'm so much addicted to the Internet marketing thing that most of the times that it's not possible

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x3xsolxdierx3x 14 years ago

I don't take entire days off...

For me, personally, I can "take off" certain hours and effectively balance life.
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Rosane Blanco

14 years ago

I it is extremely important to take time off. How often you do it is very personal, but most importantly it is vital for your productivity to take regular breaks. Do focus on your task without interuptions and distraction for say 1 hour, then take break. Make yourself a cuppa, take some fresh air, then get back on the horse. You need to make sure the time you dedicate to your work is actually solid work: no interuptions and no distractions. Otherwise you are wasting time. And you know how it goes, time is money...

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Anup Mahajan

14 years ago

I usually take off on Sunday.. Now my kids have started going to school so I have aligned my weekends with theirs

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Fazal Mayar

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Ofthemix

This is a question for full time IMers. I know that we all work a buttload of hours, so that's not really the question. The question is, do you take days off, and if so how frequently, are they scheduled, ect.

Now I'll share my story below, which some of you may already know. I was recently fired from my job for expressing my right to freedom of speech. No biggie. The company I worked for was crap anyways. I went on a job interview after that. It went horrible and while I was waiting for the interviewer to come get me I realized just how much I hate the whole proceedure of finding a new job, corporate America, and pretty much everything related. On top of that, people here are still getting laid off right and left so I was also thinking, what's really the point. I'll probably get hired today and laid off next month with the way the economy is right now.

I currently make a little over $100 a month from IM. Not much, but better than a lot of people. I've watched my IM income grow every month for a while now since I've been working on it part-time. I don't engage in list building or product creation. I absolutely hate anything having to do with customer service. So, I know that my climb to even semi-stable income via IM is going to be a slow one. But, results have been promising thus far and I finally have a system.

I have enough money saved back to sustain my living expenses for about a year. After much internal turmoil over whether or not I should look for a job or put all of my efforts into my IM business, I had a conversation with my dad that made me realize it was worth a go. He said that if I didn't give it a try, I'd regret it because I'd never know if I could have made it.

So, here I am now, sitting in front of the computer for the largest majority of the day. The desperation in me says I need to push through and work and work and work until I hit my goals, then I can take a day off. Realistically though, I'm burning out pretty quickly. So, how do you guys that do this full time manage your days so that you still succeed but aren't burning your candle at both ends?

Sorry for the novel, I tend to be long winded.

I am in the exact situation as you. I don't make much online, about 100 dollars a month but my site is getting good traffic since a while and i do work heavily on it. Im very unemployable, im also a pretty shy guy so a job for me is a very hard task. I try to make good use of the hours i spend on my site. I should try affiliate marketing as i wrote a bunch of product reviews but it needs seo to rack up the sales!

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