Nobody loves me :(

The philosophy might not be your cup of tea...er...uh.....glass of water...
the advice is good, though. Toxic build up in the body can cause all sorts of mental/physical reactions. So flushing your system out with a lot of water is actually a good thing. That's one of the reasons your doctor will tell you to drink a lot of it when you are sick. Anything beyond that is just philosophy, and your choice what to think about it.

I've been wondering, because of the amount of really down and stagnant posts from WC, if perhaps he doesn't have an analysis paralaxis problem going on? Searching, but finding oneself unable to activate because of too many problems in too many areas of life hitting at once? I've had that happen to me. It's frustrating, and it takes some real work to pull out of it. Posting here seems to be more of a misguided attempt to pull out of the paralysis.

WC - you're thinking about too much at one time. Set a priority list and just work on the main priority until you've accomplished it - then go down the list from top to bottom priority. The only exception to working on something down the list is if something or some opportunity appears right there to solve that issue. In that case - cross it off the list and go back to working on the main priority. You'll drive yourself crazy if you try to deal with too much all at once, and then, like it is now - nothing at all gets done.

Seems to me from what I have seen posted - a lot of your problems stem from lack of money. Find work -- advertise on Craigslist - put up an ad on the community boards in local stores, talk to local shopkeepers and tell them you need anything, even if it's just to help stock, clean, or so for an hour or two. You love horses? Go see if a local farmer needs help taking care of them. You can get money in without making long term commitment to jobs that way - and there won't be so much rejection due to your searchable records.

The important thing is, that if you take just one issue at a time, you won't be so overwhelmed. Sure stuff can give you cancer - but feeling trapped is worse than any of them, so get your money flow straight first, then you can take every step needed to avoid illness.

Greetings,

While I understand that my posts concerning this thread make me appear to be a heartless monster, I must reiterate my position.

1. This is not the first post of this type from the OP. All of the information conveyed in this thread has been offered in previous threads. Was any of that advice heeded? Absolutely, not!

2. It's obvious, whether the stated mental condition of the OP is factual or a ploy, that he needs to seek out medical professionals to ascertain his physical and mental status. By offering up your well-intentioned remedies, you are giving tacit permission for the OP to not do so. Why should he? As long as you are willing to take your own precious time to make suggestions that obviously are not having any impact on him, he will continue to avoid and evade professional assistance. Regardless of how well-intentioned you may be, if you truly feel that there is a problem that may require professional evaluation and treatment, you are preventing that from taking place. You are enabling this person to stay mired in his personal misery, whether factual or imagined. Stop trying to help in a situation that you are not qualified to participate in and do the only rational and intelligent thing that you can do to help this person. Tell him that you are not able to help and that if he really wants help to seek professional guidance. What you're doing is dangerous. You are not trained to determine anything about this person by a few random posts on an Internet forum. Trying to help does NOT make you a thoughtful and caring person. It's just a way for you to feel good about yourself at the expense of what could be a rapidly deteriorating condition by the OP that could result in tragedy, for both himself and possibly others if you don't butt the hell out.

The books you've read, the Bible passages that have comforted you, the music that calms you, the foods that have changed your life, the precepts and concepts you subscribe to, that you believe in above all else are totally meaningless and worthless in helping him if this individual has a true medical, psychological or psychiatric condition. What planet are you folks living on?

You are powerless to help and can contribute to a bad situation if you don't tell him that you have absolutely nothing to offer. What works or has worked for you means nothing. The things in play here can range from a vitamin or mineral deficiency to a brain tumor. You can't refute the possibility of either of those or anything in between.

Whether you believe it or not, you are being totally manipulated. That's not to say the OP does not have a problem as many conditions can manifest by all kinds of behavior, including manipulation. You don't think that posting and then disappearing is not a form of manipulation? You don't think that the thought that you might be worried about him in his absence doesn’t give him a rush? Then you're crazy. It's obvious this person has 'issues.'

And to the mods - you won't allow discussions about religion or politics but you're going to allow arm-chair therapists to offer their two-bit conjecture on a subject that has absolutely no business being on this forum. I suggest that you have a long talk with your corporate attorneys and ask them if they feel that by allowing this type of discussion if you are opening yourself up to any type of liability.

As someone in therapy for 40 years (insert the 'It's not working jokes,' here) and has led group therapy sessions for PTSD under the supervision of a qualified mental health professional, I have witnessed this behavior hundreds of times. While I would never attempt to offer an actual diagnosis, I can tell you that this behavior is what we call in group therapy, 'Pitty-Pot Syndrome.' Again, I am not downplaying the possibility of a serious condition, but I feel safe in stating my assessment.

Please, I know from experience that the only way to help someone is to do everything within your power to get them to a qualified professional, as quickly as possible. If you truly care, that is the ONLY course of action to take. Your claptrap remedies are worthless, pre-diagnosis. Afterwards - have at it, but until then, you are playing with fire.

You want to do something that will actually make a difference in the world? Go volunteer at your local SPCA. Much less chance of you doing damage to any living creature.

Have a great day. - Frank

It was especially bad when the person he ripped off (a popular and well known contributor to the OT, and other parts of the Warrior Forum) put some business his way after feeling a bit sorry for him.

I'm with PosNeg and Suzanne on this one, no sympathy for his constant attention seeking, and no remorse if he's banned again, even if it's permanently.

I appreciate that, but it's obvious that you've never loaned me money. :-)

Cheers. - Frank

Posted by others? Like the "nuke em" post on the blog in your signature?

That's not entirely true - it just takes some effort and you can get most gone
and bury the rest where people researching you for bizz wont see it.

-- OR

You can embrace the vileness - as a matter of fact step it up a notch or two
and then go niche specific with what you sell to the groups that would
applaud your commentary.

Yes, l can believe that, l doubt that you would put your face on someone who is gay!


Yes, a God would at least have a shiny, white fridge with water purifier,...but maybe now?


Sal, you offered advise, way beyond what most of us would, and you should be applauded for that!


But true, it seems that WC's past is catching up with him, and his Mother passing would have been very hard, (my Father died when l was 15) but as you have said, a hate racist blog, is going to bite you, especially if you want to work online!

It seems that he has certain deeply ingrained views on business practices and certain groups, and eventhough he is trying to justify that, by sidestepping, l think that most here can see beyond that!

You might see that keeping funds allocated to a deal that went sour as being Godlike or justified, but most if not all of everyone else won't!

Negative word or mouth will spread quicker than positive; not sure whether that is true, but l certainly wouldn't test it!


As others have said, clean up your act as much as possible, do something nice for someone here, to build some credibility at this forum, (it will take a long time thought) but it is a start.

You will also be surprised at what a difference it can make to your mental outlook!

If you want people to love you, then make the video above private, clean up the blog, or remove it, clean up everything else as much as possible, and do something nice here!



PS if you go to garage sales, in your area, or flea markets perhaps, you will be able to find a ton of second hand books, for next to nothing; l did that when a had a stall at a market, and needed a ton of novels!

Just the usual, Kurt and Riffle.