Best pick up line you've used or been used on you?

Well if there is a 20 to 25 year difference, then it is probably doomed from the start!

Pickup lines are for people who have no idea of why a women is attracted to a dude.

Pickup lines are for people with no game, not much social skills when it comes to the other gender, and absolutely for those who do not recognize when a woman is interested and when she is not.

Pickup lines come from entrepreneurs who started the PickUp artist industry making millions from guys with no clue. The PickUp artist is an absolute, total fraud.

These guys watch real guys with game, players , macks, pimps, etc., and came up with a theory of why these types can get women.

The theory is still a theory and is false.

Some guys know whats the game but most guys stumble into either success or failure, not knowing really why they got either.

Within 5 to 11 seconds or so, a woman already has decided if she is attracted to you and everything else that goes with it.

If a woman is "too much work", she probably is not for you, unless you are desperate for any human contact of the opposite gender.

Nowadays, a percentage of women display "Masculine" energy, which one should avoid like the plague.

One of a womans primary instinct is security, whether socially, financial or whatever, so guys "MISTAKINGLY" assume if a woman is talking to them, she really likes him.

A good percentage of women take the "lesser of evil" approach and would take a chance on a "niiiiiccce guy" simply because of the bad experiences and will sometimes go for the "what-the-hell" approach, because the type of guys she's REALLY attracted to usually turn out bad.

Don't be attracted to one of these "settlers" .

Thats why guys , with any sense, look for "old school" value women , where women want to be women. Most women are forced to be both the man and women in their families out of necessity because of no male figure, and thats great, just don't hook up with one who has a habit out of necessity or other psychosis factors that SHE needs to sometimes or MOST times wear the pants.

Which is one of the reasons a lot of shows promote "effeminate, wishy-washy, unsure, scared-of-their-opposite-gender" type characters which I can no longer watch or stomach.

As an example, in this Lab and Lecture, a guy was in a club hanging out. Some nice looking woman was eye-balling him, then proceeded to give him a silent gesture with her finger as to say "come here", motioning him with her finger.

He then turned his back on her and NEVER , ever engaged her again, in any way. Now, some would say this guy is crazy, thats free stuff, jackpot....., sure, to someone thats desperate, needy and hungry with no self worth. BUT, he said she displayed MASCULINE energy, you know, the ball busting type, dominatrix type energy. The logic is, "I am not some dog or pet you COMMAND or train to your whim".

REAL bro's knows what I am talking about.

But if settling is your thing, hey, what ever makes you happy.

It is a shame when you see guys with ALL the tools for the game, whether good-looking, successful, tough guy looking, in shape, etc., and they simply do not know or use properly what they have, and end up with some screeching, pants wearing , dominatrix, demanding shrew , who all she has to offer is the promise of sex and or human contact/companionship, or maybe she is a partner to pay the bills, an even more pathetic reason.

Poor saps do not know there are women FOR THEM, but most guys are too lazy, desperate, hungry and lack patience until the right one shows up, and even then, they are afraid to ask and demand what she is bringing to the table besides access to sex. Most guys do not put themselves in position to be the very best version of themselves to attract the ones that are for them.

Dudes will do this simply just to say to their friends and relatives, " I have a girlfriend" or " I got someone HOT". HOT, but not getting any, demanding, too much work, and you have become her personal concierge and gofer, all the while telling your friends that "you are the man who wears the pants and you are tapping that", woefully pathetic, even more painfully, that this chump got "friends" like that.

Learn to stay away from your" boyfriends" bro's, man up, and learn to make your own way, alone, most times.

A lot of these type women will NEVER fully, give of themselves to you because they really was not fully attracted to you in the first place, they "settled", which is why in time, as the relationship goes, these problems manifest out and eventually come back to bite you.

Besides, if you try to get honest opinions or advice about women by women , man , you are lost, because like most marketing surveys, women are going to mostly say what they deem seem to be the right thing to say or aspire to, although in real life practice, it is not so.

Pickup lines and PickUp artist have always been and always will be a fraudulent theory masquerading as some sort of art and/or science.

Women are either attracted to very handsome/pretty boy men or very macho/tough guy that on first look, you do not question he can take care of business with no apologies.

Thats why Sean Connery for one reason, was a successful James Bond, he had the Brad Pitt model looks and was tough hombre who made no apologies for who he was.

If you fall in-between, you got to self-improve to be the BEST version of yourself a gravitate to the polarity that fits you naturally.

A lot of guys were raised too much like " girlie" men, no captains of their ship with a definitive destination and are looking for the woman or women who want what THEY want.

In any company, there can never be 2 CEO'S, but a lot of guys buy that "compromise" crap. Most guys should be really saying, " I going in THIS direction and I am going to do THIS. If you want to come, lets go, if not, see ya." Without blinking twice.

A lot of us guys still need to learn "how" to be a man, which don't mean abusive, just mean being one's own boss of one's own self, life and destiny, the one AND ONLY captain of your life, in the true meaning of the word. If a woman wants to be captain on YOUR ship, she needs to find her own ship and crew, leave you out, but a lot of guys "settle" for the co-captain option.

Desperation is neither attractive nor manly.

A man who is his own man does not need to worry of being alone and IS not worried if he is, there are always plenty applicants who want to get aboard your ship and be your crew.

This is not to convince anyone of anything, just for those who would do their own research and quest for self-improvement.

The 13th Warrior

Gee, it is not my fault, my pet fluffy bunny keeps putting its paw over my mouth!

But you are right, Asian women have a thing about Rabbit stew!

Terra K, the Amazing Memory Woman. :-)

Seems like a long relationship for a 17 year old girl.