Is Twitter more dangerous than hard drugs and hookers?

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This may seem like a strange post. I orginally talked about this elsewhere, but I think it will be more relevant here than anywhere. I doubt many people will agree with me but listen first before ye judge.

I think Twitter is a dangerous platform to use if you are a person who creates content and sells said content.

It has its advantages. Massive advantages in some cases. People like Alexander Cortes, a personal trainer in LA, has built an entire business by basically making a huge (and constant) splash on Twitter and getting people to sign up to his email list.

A number of people like Ben Settle, who have changed the way I look at business, I have found via Twitter.

So, I am not saying that you shouldn't use Twitter, but listen, Twitter is like a loaded AK-47 with hollow points, that you better be pointing in the right direction if you don't want to end up in the hospital missing an eye and half of your brain.

What makes it dangerous?

For ease of reading, I'll bullet them for you.

- Twitter is addictive because it is its own universe. This is the key reason why it is so dangerous.
- This social media website encourages you to make the most polarizing and outrageous statements possible. It is what gets attention. Nuance and moderation die here.
- Twitter makes you think you are "brand building" when really you can spend hours on it and see no difference in your wallet. This is a problem all social media has.
- Twitter encourages instant gratification over long-term progress. Why write a book when you can make some funny tweets that get retweeted instantly?
- You are competing for your audience against hundreds if not thousands of other voices, as well as algorithms totally beyond your control.
- Twitter opens you up to the whole world, meaning that you can be viciously attacked by a mob of strangers for something taken out of context or something you said 5 years ago to a friend.
- As we have discussed, Twitter encourages polarization, which means you are far more likely to butt heads with people. This makes for good entertainment but poor emotional health.
Now here comes the big reason, for me at least. Twitter retards your ability to create long-form content.

Personally, this is my main reason I am very cautious about using the platform for myself.
I know one man who used to be a serious blog writer, but after using Twitter to a huge degree during the political race of 2016, found it painful to write a 500-word book review after it had all died down.

Another writer, an essayist and heavy Twitter user, has been working on a book for years and years, and it has never come out. Don't worry though, his Twitter game is strong.

A great number of fiction writers have over 100k and 200k Tweets, yet they struggle to get their books released on time, and often their books are pretty badly written.

Twitter can be powerful. Extremely powerful. But it is like a drug. You get used to the notifications, the comments, the endless drama, the constant parade of self-promoting B.S, that you forget, oh yeah, I have a business to run, or even, oh yeah, I have a life to live.

So, like an addict going cold turkey, I am staying away from Twitter. As a result, I have become a much happier and much more productive person. Instead of seeing things in the context of "what will X think on Twitter?" I am now thinking, "What do I think?"

If you're big and enough and brave enough to wrestle with the Twitter beast and come out on top, I congratulate you.
#dangerous #drugs #hard #hookers #twitter
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  • Profile picture of the author brettb
    Twitter is a waste of time and I'm pleased I uninstalled that trash.
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  • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
    Social media is anti-social and a bane on a civilized world. Anyone who believes it makes their life better, was starting from a very low place and are not self-aware enough to see it's destructive effects.

    I have only one thing in my life that I want to selectively share - but I can't mention it, here.
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    • Profile picture of the author Odahh
      Originally Posted by OptedIn View Post

      Social media is anti-social and a bane on a civilized world. Anyone who believes it makes their life better, was starting from a very low place and are not self-aware enough to see it's destructive effects.

      I have only one thing in my life that I want to selectively share - but I can't mention it, here.
      everything on the internet counts as social media ..

      in any cast i am only 40 ..and the same danger argument was used with video games 20-25 years ago then online video games 15 years ago after games like ever quest Asheron's call and world of warcraft became popular ..

      now that nearly anyone can afford a device and get online with high speed internet.. and the entire internet is social media ..

      it is easy to talk about the dangers of social media .. the main danger is neck problems and the probability of easily gaining large amount of information to be an expert on unimportant things ..

      and not learning how to filter information for the important usefull bits .. and just sponging up large amounts of information .. that prevent a person from making any useful choice to make progress on anything .. learn 1001 scrambleled egg recipies and never buy a dozen eggs ..because you are not sure which eggs will have the best results and non of the people in the video will tell you hat eggs they used ..

      so the dangers are not the same as hard drug or hookers or even videogames .. the damgers with social media is being a spector of what others are doing and showing you how to do it..while you never actually do anything but watch other people show you how to do stuff
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      • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
        Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

        everything on the internet counts as social media ..
        That's just semantics. Much of the Internet has nothing to do with social media, as we are using the term in this thread. That's why the term exists. Otherwise, we'd just call social media, "the Internet." It's a part of the Internet. A vile, disgusting, demented cesspool of steaming, subhuman garbage.

        Have a lovely day. :-)
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        • Profile picture of the author Odahh
          Originally Posted by OptedIn View Post

          That's just semantics. Much of the Internet has nothing to do with social media, as we are using the term in this thread. That's why the term exists. Otherwise, we'd just call social media, "the Internet." It's a part of the Internet. A vile, disgusting, demented cesspool of steaming, subhuman garbage.

          Have a lovely day. :-)
          such a harsh view of forums and aol chat rooms ..and irc and icq where even worse..the current new fads or new thing face book ..instagram .. twitter.. just build on the old things they replace .. like facebook and other things.. and the what ever the advancing tech allows next ..

          and what ever replaces back page and the personal section of craigslist will just be the next version of that the government has a harder time to monitor
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          • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
            Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

            and what ever replaces back page and the personal section of craigslist
            I'm working on this. Might use the OyBay.com domain for this as it's a hear it once and never forget it name. If I get arrested, between my age, health and community karma points - I won't do any jail time. If I do, you know it was much more successful than I ever dreamed.

            I don't see how it can be so hard to have reasonably mild adult ads while eliminating sex-trafficking, kiddie porn and selling Taylor Swift concert tickets to impressionable underage kids.

            A perfect project for someone with nothing else to do with their time.
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            • Profile picture of the author Odahh
              Originally Posted by OptedIn View Post

              I'm working on this. Might use the OyBay.com domain for this as it's a hear it once and never forget it name. If I get arrested, between my age, health and community karma points - I won't do any jail time. If I do, you know it was much more successful than I ever dreamed.

              I don't see how it can be so hard to have reasonably mild adult ads while eliminating sex-trafficking, kiddie porn and selling Taylor Swift concert tickets to impressionable underage kids.

              A perfect project for someone with nothing else to do with their time.
              you are assuming the child sex stuff and the sex trafficking stuff .. was the actual reason it was shut down..

              what did you say in another thread .. you know woman who do it who make far more money than average income .. but because it is illegal.. it's hard to pay taxes .. and our society does not like people making money to easy .. without the government or bankers getting a big cut ..

              I may not partake but i believe it should be legal and protected .. instead we turn our head and let these women be raped a few time a month .. or subject them to getting murdered beatn abused .. and destroy any safty network they try to use ..
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              • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
                Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

                you are assuming the child sex stuff and the sex trafficking stuff .. was the actual reason it was shut down.
                It was. You can get away with prostitution. It's all in how you word the ad. Plus, by the time they would get around to me over that, I'll be happy to shut down and take what I made to that point. I'm not greedy and I'm not looking for a new career. Just a little boredom reduction.

                Just found a old PHP classified script I had built a couple of years, ago. That should work.
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  • Profile picture of the author SiteNameSales
    I don't know what the big deal is. You will only see the tweets of those you befriended for the most part plus the occasional ad and your own search requrest.. Also, there must 30 or 40 automatic Twitter poster apps out there that can help keep your actual time on the site to a minimum.
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  • Profile picture of the author Steve B
    Are guns dangerous? Yes, but only in the hands of dangerous people and those who shouldn't have them.


    Are drugs dangerous? Yes, but it's the people that use them that make the decision to do danger to themselves.


    Of course, my point is simply that all these things, Twitter included, have been know to harm people when they are misused.


    The same could be said for most every online tool out there.


    Even the essentials to life, like sunshine, fire, and water can kill a person if they are not controlled and used properly.


    I think the real problem is not the tool. It's the human that misuses it and doesn't understand the personal harm that's being done in the meantime.


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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    I have:

    - been featured on a billionaire's blog via a contact made through Twitter
    - been featured on Forbes via a contact made on Twitter
    - been featured on Entrepreneur via a contact made on Twitter
    - been featured on Fox News via a contact made on Twitter

    Like any network, if you are generous and genuine on the site, the site is generous and genuine to you.

    If you are not genuine, and stingy, the site is stingy and useless to you.

    Like all things in life; you get out of it what you put into it.

    Social media is only a drain for the angry, fearful, desperate and pained. Simply reflects their energy back to them. I spread love on social and have fun befriending and helping folks so it works quite nicely for me.
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    Twitter may or may not be as dangerous as drugs and hookers, but it's nowhere near as much fun.
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  • Profile picture of the author Kurt
    >Is Twitter more dangerous than hard drugs and hookers?

    Maybe, but not nearly as much fun.
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